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The Mighty Pen

June 11th, 2008

People typically suppress negative emotions such as anger, hate, frustration and the likes. Sometimes though, we cannot help but to vent out these negative pent-up emotions. We even channel it through violent and harmful means at times, which we know is not very healthy. How do we channel our negative emotions? Is there a right way to deal with negative emotions?

Yes, there is. Negative emotions can be dealt with possibly. The best way to do it is through journal writing.

Writing about thing that pisse us off, from the most trivial to the most complex, is like a therapy in its own right. In a study that was conducted years ago, it was shown that people who expressed deep feeling through writing entries in journals reported to have felt better than those who suppressed their emotions while writing their journals. Based on the study, emotions that confiding emotions that are kept inside us can relieve stress. Consequently, this would produce remarkable effects on our well-being, through physical and emotional health.

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Secrets To Happiness

May 27th, 2008

We all want to be happy—one way or another. But did you know that one of the means for finding and keeping happiness is to maintain your emotional health? Above all else, emotional health helps us keep our tabs not only on the smile that makes other people’s day, but also the warm glow and the positive energy that inevitably flows out of us when we are truly, genuinely happy.

The first step in ensuring your emotional health is to fight stress and overcome it. Don’t let it eat you alive. Keep in mind that you are bigger, wiser, and in effect, stronger than any hardship. You are made to last. Finding ways to cope with stress and successfully managing it will put an end to your negative attitude towards life and instead, would bring out your potentials.

The second step in ensuring your emotional health is to acknowledge your feelings. remember, feelings, both positive and negative, are important because these are part of who and what you are: your beliefs, your values, your desires, and your ideals. However, acknowledging your feelings does not mean that you have to live with both the positive and the negative emotions. It is important to note that feelings have to be dealt with on your own terms, but emotional health necessitates you to leave the emotional baggage behind after acknowledging it. This is for you to have acceptance and healing from the past.

The last step is the appreciation of one’s self. This is directly related the assertion of your worth as a person. You should never fail to look at what you have accomplished and how far you have gone to remind yourself that you have what it takes to succeed in life.

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Staying Positive

May 27th, 2008

 It is important to be healthy not only physically, but emotionally as well. Emotional health is a vital component in keeping a good disposition in life. It makes up an integral component of a person’s happiness and well-being. A person who is under a healthy emotional state has the ability to handle stress, and is appreciative of one’s self, as well as the other people in his or her life. Emotionally healthy people are in control of their thoughts and behaviors; hence they are not disturbed by impulses that would cause destruction to themselves or to the other people around them.

There are many positive things that come with being emotionally healthy. One of these is the positive outlook that they exude, the positive outlook which makes them more confident about their future undertakings, regardless of the uncertainties that lay ahead.

Another advantage of being emotionally healthy is the ability to interact well with others, which comes with the ability to establish and keep good relationships. This is due to the peace of mind that an emotionally healthy person maintains. In effect, he or she is seldom afflicted with insecurity and self-doubt. Inter-personal relationships are important; an emotionally healthy person knows this, thus, he or she thrives in the company of others and acknowledges their importance in his or her life.

Everyone experiences troubles and problems in the different spheres of life, but an emotionally healthy person knows this. In spite of this, he still can keep his or her problems in perspective. Simply put, he or she exudes the courage and the self-confidence to face the challenges that life puts in his or her way.

Lastly, emotionally healthy people have self-control. They think first of the consequences of their actions before doing a certain deed. They do not easily resort to impulsive actions. Thus, they seldom regret anything because they hardly do things that they have not yet thought of well before committing.

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